Barron Cole Matthews

Are We Ready?

I’ve run across a lot of people that are dating, or in relationships are coming across the decision whether it not to have sex. Here’s what I think…Never let someone pressure you to have sex. If you don’t want to, tell them. Don’t have sex with someone just because they want you to. This is a good indication whether or not the person will stay or not. I’d you tell them no, and they stuck around, this is someone that genuinely cares about you and wants to be with you. Communication is key.

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Anonymous Asks:

Askin for some advice. Been seeing a guy some what seriously for about 6 months now and things have been amazing and connect on so many levels (interests, personality and sexually), but the issue is he still refuses to label us as in a relationship. This is because he is a closeted bi and is scared of what his family and co-workers would think. I have been out for a few months now and i know what he is going through, but i am getting frustrated. Should i stick it out or should i be ending it?

barroncolematthews Said:

Stick it out. You really like him, and so does he. Why does there need to be a label for other people? It’s all about your connection with each other. It’s not for other people. He may eventually come around, and come out; but show that you have his support. What is most important here is how you feel about eachother.

chubthatloves Asks:

When did you come out? How are you so secure with yourself?

barroncolematthews Said:

I’m neither out or in. I just treat being gay as a normal thing. I don’t parade it around, but I won’t deny it either.

And it’s just my mindset. I try to be really positive. I used to be self conscious with myself, then experiencing life, I realized not all guys like the skinny guys. And I can be a thicker guy and still be sexy.